Articles

May 1, 2024

 Should You Still Take Birth Control During Perimenopause?

By the time women hit their 50s, more than 80 percent will have been on birth control pills for an average of five years.

April 25, 2024

Nothing Tastes As Good As Final Feels

I didn’t think my divorce being final would matter all that much, emotionally speaking. Legally, of course, it means everything.

April 17, 2024

The Radical Decision That Upended My Life

My first hour on the island of Menorca, on a sunny, warm day that was slipping into night, was spent at a local swimming hole a short walk from the old port town of Ciutadella.

April 11, 2024

Why I’m Taking a Break From Botox

October 27th was the last time I did Botox. It may not seem that long ago, nor may the exact date feel important, but it set in motion a stopwatch inside my brain.

April 4, 2024

My Mother’s Dementia Symptoms Were Brushed Off For Too Long

My mother developed symptoms of frontotemporal dementia when I was 27. She was 61.

March 27, 2024

Virginia Sole-Smith on Ageism, Fat Phobia and ‘the Stigma of Mom’

In your interview with registered dietician Debra Benfield, you brought up the stigma of mom, which is how we code middle-aged women as “mom,” whether they have kids or not.

March 21, 2024

How to Get a Grip on Mindless Spending

A few months ago, it was brought to my attention that my spending had gone a bit rogue. By “brought to my attention,” I mean I looked at my credit card statement and gasped at the total.

March 14, 2024

It Might Not Be Too Late to Protect Yourself From Cervical Cancer

If you’re over the age of 40 and have never been vaccinated for HPV, it’s not too late for you to protect yourself against the most commonly contracted STD in the country.

March 7, 2024

Dating After Divorce Wasn’t What They Said It’d Be

It didn’t take long after I ended my 12-year marriage for me to get on Tinder. I’d met my ex-husband in high school; he was the third person I ever dated; and we’d been married since we were 22.

February 29, 2024

How I’m Handling My Aging Mother’s Clutter

I was 21 years old when I plotted to throw out as many bags of my mom’s belongings as I could while she was out of town for work. That was the summer of 2002.

February 22, 2024

When It Comes to Coming Out, It’s Never Too Late

Suzette Mullen knows what it’s like to start over. In her 50s, she came to realize she was a lesbian, a truth she’d turned away from for years

February 15, 2024

The Easy Habit Everyone Should Try

A few years ago, I started a new habit that became a family tradition. Throughout the year, I kept an ongoing list of my children’s accomplishments to read to them on January 1st of the following year.

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