Articles

June 6, 2024
Turning Forty Was Great, Actually
I turned 40 this month. In the days, months, and years approaching this milestone, I prepared myself to take on something heavier, something that would weigh me down.

May 29, 2024
Why Do We Feel the Need to Give Advice?
There are a lot of confusing things about getting older — like how I gleefully look forward to recycling day, or get a headache after a glass of red wine — but one thing I didn’t expect was a newfound urge to hand out advice.

May 23, 2024
The Health Problem We Need to Talk About More
Countless books have been written about dieting, weight loss, and preventing cancer, but there are not nearly enough books about period problems, pelvic pain, sexual health, and fertility issues.

May 16, 2024
The Woman With a Plan to Fight Screen Addiction
Julie Scelfo — a parent and journalist who’s written for The New York Times, The Boston Globe, The San Francisco Chronicle, and others — began to feel concerned about how digital media was affecting kids after reporting on youth mental health.

May 9, 2024
My Experience As a “Medical Mom”
It has taken me a long time to identify with the phrase “medical motherhood.”

May 1, 2024
Should You Still Take Birth Control During Perimenopause?
By the time women hit their 50s, more than 80 percent will have been on birth control pills for an average of five years.

April 25, 2024
Nothing Tastes As Good As Final Feels
I didn’t think my divorce being final would matter all that much, emotionally speaking. Legally, of course, it means everything.

April 17, 2024
The Radical Decision That Upended My Life
My first hour on the island of Menorca, on a sunny, warm day that was slipping into night, was spent at a local swimming hole a short walk from the old port town of Ciutadella.

April 11, 2024
Why I’m Taking a Break From Botox
October 27th was the last time I did Botox. It may not seem that long ago, nor may the exact date feel important, but it set in motion a stopwatch inside my brain.

April 4, 2024
My Mother’s Dementia Symptoms Were Brushed Off For Too Long
My mother developed symptoms of frontotemporal dementia when I was 27. She was 61.

March 27, 2024
Virginia Sole-Smith on Ageism, Fat Phobia and ‘the Stigma of Mom’
In your interview with registered dietician Debra Benfield, you brought up the stigma of mom, which is how we code middle-aged women as “mom,” whether they have kids or not.

March 21, 2024
How to Get a Grip on Mindless Spending
A few months ago, it was brought to my attention that my spending had gone a bit rogue. By “brought to my attention,” I mean I looked at my credit card statement and gasped at the total.
