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February 20, 2025

Why Does No One Talk About Perimenopausal Mood Swings?

By Tiffany Iung I’ve worked in food service since I was old enough to have a job. As a born people-pleaser, I was destined for hospitality, and always dreamed of owning a little place where I could offer my own version of great care and good food.  But it’s hard to open a restaurant, and…

February 13, 2025

Financial Experts’ Advice on Managing Your Money Right Now

The article was adapted from a piece published originally on The Purse. By Lindsey Stanberry I think I have mostly lived in a place of denial since last year’s presidential election. I woke up the morning after Election Day feeling that sharp pang of deep disappointment many of us know well, wrote a newsletter in…

February 6, 2025

The Realities of Friendship Post-Kids

By Leslie Price and Marquita Harris In January, we asked readers without kids to describe their relationships with their friends who are mothers. Responses poured in; some surprising, some devastating. We were moved by how much kindness, understanding, and patience were captured in all of your thoughtful words.  What we gathered from your responses (and…

January 30, 2025

How to Avoid Financial Ruin After a Medical Emergency

By Ines Bellina In late March of 2024, I woke up with a persistent ache in my upper torso that I immediately recognized as a biliary colic. I had been dealing with those symptoms since January and was stubbornly waiting to go to Peru, my home country, to finally get my gallbladder removed. Being hospitalized…

January 23, 2025

What Makes a “Good Mother”?

By Nancy Reddy Neither my husband nor I knew anything about babies before ours was born. But I was the one who carried the baby; I was his mother. I’d expected to be transformed. I’d absorbed such deep messages about the magic of motherhood, how once the baby was born, my deep love for him…

January 16, 2025

What I Learned Running for Office

By Leslie Price Running for office always seemed like a thing that other people did, and I had no idea how they accomplished it. I always thought these people were to be lawyers, or from families where one or more of their parents were also politicians. But what about us normies? What is the best…

December 19, 2024

I’m Twice-Divorced–But I Still Believe In Love

By Vanessa De Luca In my 30s, I was unmarried and ready to have children. I believed I would find the same unconditional, committed relationship I had grown up seeing from my parents. Cut to: ex-husband #1, a friend of my best friend’s husband. That couple decided we’d make a good match, and fixed us…

December 12, 2024

 You Don’t Have to Be Married to Send Holiday Cards

By Lana Schwartz Each year, as a chill takes hold in the air and Thanksgiving recedes firmly into the rearview mirror, I am overtaken by the impulse to partake in the most festive thing I’ll do all year: Open my laptop and pull up an Excel spreadsheet. Within this spreadsheet lives (extremely Miranda Priestly voice)…
a wire brain with light coming out of it

December 5, 2024

What You Should Know About Memory and Menopause 

By Elizabeth Kiefer An occasional memory lapse does not signify a larger problem — most of the time. Our brains can feel fogged over for numerous reasons, from work stress to overstimulation to the desperate need for a good night’s sleep.  Though in some instances, there might be a more serious issue, explains neuropsychologist Jessica…

November 28, 2024

Where Does Pantsuit Nation Go From Here?

By Julie Alvin A few days after the 2016 presidential election, I gathered with some friends at a bar in lower Manhattan. We had come together to grieve Donald Trump’s win, but in the course of the conversation we found that we were all feeling oddly energized – fueled by our rage at the outcome.…

November 21, 2024

Looking For A Job Over 50 Is the Worst

There comes a time in every woman’s life when she realizes that, in society’s opinion, she is no longer relevant. This is my moment.

November 14, 2024

In Praise of Post-Divorce Sex

By: Amelia Edelman The first time I had sex during the strange year of my marriage ending, it was with a woman whom I’ll call Annie (all names have been changed in this piece to protect the havers of good, bad, mind-blowing, and mediocre sex alike). She and I met at an iconic queer bar…

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