Articles

January 30, 2025
How to Avoid Financial Ruin After a Medical Emergency
By Ines Bellina In late March of 2024, I woke up with a persistent ache in my upper torso that I immediately recognized as a biliary colic. I had been dealing with those symptoms since January and was stubbornly waiting to go to Peru, my home country, to finally get my gallbladder removed. Being hospitalized…

January 23, 2025
What Makes a “Good Mother”?
By Nancy Reddy Neither my husband nor I knew anything about babies before ours was born. But I was the one who carried the baby; I was his mother. I’d expected to be transformed. I’d absorbed such deep messages about the magic of motherhood, how once the baby was born, my deep love for him…

January 16, 2025
What I Learned Running for Office
By Leslie Price Running for office always seemed like a thing that other people did, and I had no idea how they accomplished it. I always thought these people were to be lawyers, or from families where one or more of their parents were also politicians. But what about us normies? What is the best…

December 19, 2024
I’m Twice-Divorced–But I Still Believe In Love
By Vanessa De Luca In my 30s, I was unmarried and ready to have children. I believed I would find the same unconditional, committed relationship I had grown up seeing from my parents. Cut to: ex-husband #1, a friend of my best friend’s husband. That couple decided we’d make a good match, and fixed us…

December 12, 2024
You Don’t Have to Be Married to Send Holiday Cards
By Lana Schwartz Each year, as a chill takes hold in the air and Thanksgiving recedes firmly into the rearview mirror, I am overtaken by the impulse to partake in the most festive thing I’ll do all year: Open my laptop and pull up an Excel spreadsheet. Within this spreadsheet lives (extremely Miranda Priestly voice)…

December 5, 2024
What You Should Know About Memory and Menopause
By Elizabeth Kiefer An occasional memory lapse does not signify a larger problem — most of the time. Our brains can feel fogged over for numerous reasons, from work stress to overstimulation to the desperate need for a good night’s sleep. Though in some instances, there might be a more serious issue, explains neuropsychologist Jessica…

November 28, 2024
Where Does Pantsuit Nation Go From Here?
By Julie Alvin A few days after the 2016 presidential election, I gathered with some friends at a bar in lower Manhattan. We had come together to grieve Donald Trump’s win, but in the course of the conversation we found that we were all feeling oddly energized – fueled by our rage at the outcome.…

November 21, 2024
Looking For A Job Over 50 Is the Worst
There comes a time in every woman’s life when she realizes that, in society’s opinion, she is no longer relevant. This is my moment.

November 14, 2024
In Praise of Post-Divorce Sex
By: Amelia Edelman The first time I had sex during the strange year of my marriage ending, it was with a woman whom I’ll call Annie (all names have been changed in this piece to protect the havers of good, bad, mind-blowing, and mediocre sex alike). She and I met at an iconic queer bar…

October 31, 2024
Crashing the Ultimate Old Boys’ Club
By Paulina Bren In September 1970, the New York City Commission on Human Rights held a series of hearings on sex discrimination in the workplace. In his opening remarks, Mayor Lindsay spoke of “a total environment of inequality in which half the population is systematically denied rights and opportunities taken for granted by the other…

October 24, 2024
The Joy of Learning to Surf in Your 50s
By Karen Russo I arrive at the beach just as my surf instructor, Jordy, pulls up on his motorcycle. It’s 5:30 a.m, still dark outside, and I can see the moon and stars above the water. I wax my board as Jordy and I look at the waves. The beach is a three-mile stretch of…

October 17, 2024
The Show That Made Me Feel Less Alone
By Heather Barmore “I’m a little weird,” I told a friend recently. She told me that I shouldn’t say that about myself. Later, I would refer to myself as a late-bloomer, only to be admonished again. A weird and quirky late bloomer, to be precise. All I could do was shrug. I’m Black, I am…
