Articles

May 3, 2023

The Messiness of Coming Out Later in Life

Last summer I fell in love with a woman. This sounds like an unremarkable fact on its own. But it was remarkable — I was a straight, 34-year-old, married woman who’d never even had a same-gender crush.

April 27, 2023

The Prescription Face Cream You Might Just Need

Most face creams don’t really deliver on their marketing promises. In fact, they under-deliver. This is not the case with fluorouracil, which arguably punches way, way above what its simple, clinical-looking tube might suggest.

April 20, 2023

How to “Level Up” A Casual Friendship

Just as much as you’re going to grow and change, it makes sense that your wants and expectations of your friendships will grow and change as well.

April 13, 2023

My Period Changed. What Now?

As a teen in the early aughts, my “period management” came down to choosing between tampons or pads at CVS and trying not to worry about TSS.

April 6, 2023

A Hysterectomy Saved My Sex Life

By my mid-30s, I'd resigned myself to a life without satisfying sex. As far as I could tell, great sex was a thing some women had that eluded me, like clear skin and effortless style.

March 30, 2023

‘Weathering’ Forces Us to Think Differently About Aging

Public health researcher Arline T. Geronimus wrote the book Weathering: The Extraordinary Stress of Ordinary Life in an Unjust Society years after she coined the term “weathering” to explain how constant, long-term stress brought on by discrimination prematurely ages and sickens people in marginalized groups.

March 23, 2023

Is “Girls”Relatable Now?

When Girls debuted on HBO in 2012, I was 45 years old and was, I’ll admit it, kind of mesmerized.

March 16, 2023

The Double Life of Divorce 

Every week, I’m two people. They’re related, yes, and I’m getting better at blending them. But they live different lives and even have different friends.

March 9, 2023

There’s More to Your Uterus Than Housing Kids

The uterus is often inextricably linked to a person’s identity, and its removal is as powerful as its presence.

March 2, 2023

Courteney Cox Made a Good Celebrity Brand

There are a lot, nay, a ridiculous number, of celebrities who launched beauty brands in the last several years.

February 23, 2023

In Praise of Lived-In Homes

Recently, on my way to pick up my son from a play date, I received this text from the other mom: "Feel free to come in! My house is lived in, and I don't care if people see it.

February 16, 2023

Podcaster Karen Arthur on Surviving Menopause

Tired of seeing experiences like hers “get flipping ignored,” Karen Arthur took up the cause of menopause.

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