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July 27, 2023

What’s With All the Anonymous Posts About Divorce?

In one of my local Facebook groups, I often see women asking anonymously if they should leave a rocky marriage.

July 20, 2023

Is There a “Right” Age for Women at Work?

In the months leading up to my 45th birthday, I had been feeling confident about my professional prospects for the future.

July 13, 2023

My Horrific Plunge into Sandwich Caregiving

Something was wrong with Mom’s brain. Last summer, she began taking a muscle relaxant for crippling arthritis pain and started acting bizarre.

July 6, 2023

I’ve Become an Obsessive Worrier in My Forties

A few years ago, my boyfriend left for work during a pounding rainstorm for his half-hour commute. I texted him an hour later to make sure he’d arrived okay.

June 29, 2023

The Parenting Milestones I Didn’t Expect

On Saturday, my younger child will graduate from high school, just like so many thousands and thousands of kids have over the last few weeks.

June 22, 2023

Why is Mid-Career Networking So Cringey?

The networking event sounded so good on paper. International young professionals getting to know each other in a bar setting? Sign me up!

June 15, 2023

What to Do About Fibroids

As Black women age, sometimes it really feels like we’re getting jumped by racism. Don’t get me wrong, I love being Black and I’m embracing aging. But we experience the worst of so many health issues, and fibroids are up there as the biggest attacker.

June 8, 2023

I’m Living My Greatest Fear, and Honestly It’s Fine 

Over the holidays, I found one of my old journals from 2012/2013. I turned to a page that had “My Fears” written across the top. Beneath it, I scribbled, “I'm so afraid of being alone for the rest of my life.

June 1, 2023

The Beauty of Being an “Older” Bride

Last year, when she was 48, Los Angeles-based clinical psychologist Noosha Niv married her longtime partner in a cave near Playa del Carmen.

May 25, 2023

The Upside to Feeling Unearthed

“I’m feeling so unearthed,” a friend says to me over the phone. “I just found out I have to be out of my apartment in four days.”

May 18, 2023

“Are They Going to Want Me Anymore at 45?”

Ten months ago, PIX11 news anchor Tamsen Fadal asked her bosses if she could cut back on her anchoring duties. Instead of anchoring from 4pm to 7pm plus the 10pm newscasts daily, she would only do the first three hours of live television.

May 11, 2023

Non-Motherhood Is Complicated

Over the past four decades, studies from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention have consistently found that very few women are willing to label themselves “voluntarily childless”: 6 percent in 2017, up just slightly from 4.9 percent in 1982.

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